Don't Text That Man!: A Guide To Self Protective Dating in the Age of Technology

Rhonda Findling, author of the bestselling and internationally acclaimed "Don’t Call That Man! A Survival Guide To Letting Go" wrote "Don’t Text That Man! A Guide To Self Protective Dating in the Age of Technology" to help teach readers learn how to detach from a man they may have broken up with or has broken up with them in the healthiest way possible, with their self-esteem in tact. Packed with invaluable advice, Don’t Text That Man! will help you learn to cope with obsessive thinking as well as feelings of anger and aggression. In our fast-paced technological world, women truly need to be smarter and more self-protective than ever before. Don’t Text That Man! will teach you how.
Table of Contents
Introduction
Malignant Men
The Classic Malignant Men Prototypes
The Sexually Ambivalent Man
The Severely Emotionally Avoidant Malignant Man
Why Do Malignant Men Destroy Relationships With Women?
Malignant Men’s Most Popular Psychological Defense
How Did He Get Like This?
Relating to Malignant Men
What To Do If You’ve Been Devastated By A Malignant Man
Detaching from a Malignant Man
Detaching Technologically
Why Acting Aggressive Is Not A Good Idea
Recovery Three To Six Months Later
Why Do I Still Want To Contact Him?
Ruminating
Destructive Thoughts That Disempower You
How To Stop Ruminating And Thinking Destructive Thoughts
Six Months To One Year Later
Closure
Forgiving “That Man”


Reviews

Don’t Text That Man is perfect for today's technological dating scene, Packed with savvy advice, tips, examples and ideas women can use to avoid getting back with that man who is NOT Mr. Right, this handy-dandy guide is an essential tool for navigating the stormy seas of today's dating scene.
- Robin Glasser, author of My Life as a Concubine and Men at Work

In "Don't Text that Man!" Rhonda Findling has captured the basic psychology of the "malignant man" - the one who will defeat you if you date him. Findling breaks it all down and examines each part of the malignant man's behavior in detail. If you want to know how to protect yourself in such an unfortunate dating situation, then this book is a must. The book is written in a reader-friendly style. To top it off, Rhonda Findling is a superb psychotherapist. P.S. Read her black jack theory and her 15-step program for saving yourself.
- Dr. Henry Kellerman, Ph.D., author of The 4 Steps to Peace of Mind: The Simple Effective Way to Cure Our Emotional Symptoms; Personality: How it Forms and Dictionary of Psychopathology

"Don't Text that Man" offers women age-old wisdom for our modern times. French women don't text their man, and neither should you."
- Jamie Cat Callan, author of French Women Don't Sleep Alone

Biography

Rhonda Findling is a psychotherapist and author of the acclaimed Don’t Call That Man! A Survival Guide To Letting Go, Men Who Run From Love: How To Have A Relationship With A Relationship Phobic Man, When He Won't Commit: What To Do When You Fall For An Ambivalent Man, Don't Lose That Man! How Women Sabotage Their Opportunities For Romantic Relationships And What They Can Do To Change, A Teenager's Memoir, and Portrait of My Desire. Rhonda has appeared on national talk shows including CNN Headline News, Ricki Lake, Geraldo, Maury Povitch, Eye Witness News, Good Day New York, Carnie, Ilyana, Tempest and Judith Regan Tonight. She has led workshops and seminars in New York, L.A., Paris, Berlin and London. Rhonda has been featured in the New York Post, Los Angeles Times, The Boston Globe, Newsday, Rocky Mountain News, Cosmopolitan magazine, Latina Magazine, Glamour (UK and Paris editions) Le Progress, Life and Style, US Weekly, Femina and Today’s Black Woman.